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This is the simplest New Year's resolution you'll ever make

Post by St3v3M » Thu Jan 04, 2018 3:53 pm

This is the simplest New Year's resolution you'll ever make
"by Rheana Murray for TODAY

For years, I shunned the idea of setting a New Year's resolution — I knew it wouldn't stick.

But then, I found one that did.

At the end of 2014, facing professional burnout and an uncertain future, I chose one word to usher in 2015, a word I hoped would guide me during the more hectic times: calm.

It became my one-word mantra for the year. The goal was to navigate 2015 with that word in mind, making choices in both my personal and professional lives that would lead to calm. The next year, I chose kind. The year after that? Confidence.

This year, I rang in 2018 with creativity, making a quiet promise to myself to not let passion projects slide amid work and relationships and family and everything else that begs our attention throughout the year.

The one-word resolutions don't dominate my life. Instead, they're just loose themes. If I'm struggling to make a decision about something, I'll choose the option that best aligns with that year's word. If I find myself drifting off course, I simply remind myself to get back on track — no guilt required.

I don't need a gym membership or a new hobby or more money or anything else that many other common New Year's resolutions call for — just a little intention, and I'm all set.

So if you're looking for a New Year's resolution but can't bear to fail at yet another promise to yourself to lose 10 pounds, feel free to borrow mine. Here are a few tips: The idea is to focus on the big picture, not the details. This resolution is about creating a fuller life, not about feeling guilty about the small things.

Choose something that you want more of. Maybe it's passion or health or peace or even sleep. But keep it simple: Only one word allowed. What is your life missing right now? Choose that.

Oh, and one more thing? Don't worry that it's already a few days into January. After all, you've got the whole year!"
"Take photographs, leave footprints, steal hearts"

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Post by Duck » Thu Jan 04, 2018 5:10 pm

This makes so much more sense than the typical, "losing weight, quitting smoking," resolutions people make.
"If you didn't learn something new today, you wasted a day."
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Post by St3v3M » Thu Jan 04, 2018 7:57 pm

Duck wrote:
Thu Jan 04, 2018 5:10 pm
This makes so much more sense than the typical, "losing weight, quitting smoking," resolutions people make.
I chose Learning! S-
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Post by Duck » Thu Jan 04, 2018 9:32 pm

Mine will be "rebuilding."

I have decided to close my tattoo studio and concentrate on my new passion. Yes, I'm nuts, but 24 years tattooing has finally gotten to me.
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Post by St3v3M » Thu Jan 04, 2018 10:04 pm

Duck wrote:
Thu Jan 04, 2018 9:32 pm
Mine will be "rebuilding."
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I like it! S-
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